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The Ultimate Guide to Hosting a Cannabis-Friendly Wedding: A Collaboration with Bridal Musings 💍🍃
Cannabis consumers know weed’s power to amplify an atmosphere of love and union. Weddings are a great place to highlight the beauty and diversity of cannabis products - let us know you the most elegant way to serve weed at your wedding!
Wedding ideas for those who are interested in having a glamorous, cannabis-friendly wedding.
The stigma of consuming cannabis is changing, and so is the consumer. Weddings are a great place to highlight the beauty and diversity of cannabis products and luxury ancillary products. Cannabis consumers know it’s power to amplify an atmosphere of love and union.
To get the inspiration flowing, we collaborated with editor, Claire Eliza, of iconic wedding publication, Bridal Musings to produce a dreamy cannabis wedding shoot featuring an array of dope products! We decided to choose 1906 chocolates, Love + Destroy pipes, My Bud Vase bongs, accessories by Alyson Nicole, and gorgeous Sarah Seven wedding dresses as well as an amazing spliff bar by Barbari Shop for our dream weed wedding.
Check out the photos below to get some ideas for your own wedding and keep scrolling for more tips!
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Cannabis weddings are on the rise
Cannabis weddings are a major trend right now. There are so many benefits of pairing weed with weddings. Despite what non-cannabis users might think, having weed at your wedding doesn't mean you aren't keeping things classy - in fact, people can act a lot more civilized if they aren't pumped with booze. However, you can still incorporate bottles of champagne and alcohol (if you choose!). Basically the rule when it comes to planning your wedding is...you can do whatever you want. Don't be influenced by any potential shade from "helpful" relatives or feel like you have to make choices to please other people. This is your day!
A weed wedding checklist
When planning a weed wedding there are a few practical things consider:
1) Make sure to check with your local authorities about whether or not marijuana is legal where you plan on tying the knot. Local laws may even need to be adjusted if a state passes a new recreational law. Even if you're in Washington State where it's legal to grow your own weed, you'll need a permit to have a cannabis wedding. Obviously, we wish we lived in a world where cannabis was legal everything but until then, it's always better to be safe if you aren't sure.
2) Check with your local cannabis retailer (you might have to jump through hoops to make this happen, but it's worth it in the end) for the cannabis vendors who are licensed to provide services at your wedding.
3) Find a marijuana-friendly catering company for all your ganja-inclusive festivities. Look for a restaurant or caterer with a clean food handling certification.
5) Prepare a cannabis wedding registry (we have some ideas below).
6) If you don't want to have a huge wedding, why not host a small group of your closest friends and plan a private pot-friendly party.
Designing your cannabis wedding
This one is pretty obvious, but we really love using weed leaves and hemp flower during the ceremony as well as the reception. Here are some ideas to use cannabis as a decorative element:
You can go the crafty route and ask your local hemp farm if you can buy any extra flower they may not need to make your own flower arrangements. We paired store bought flowers with wild flowers and hemp to create an organic bouquet
Hire a florist who is cannabis friendly and ask them to weave in cannabis in their design along with your favorite flowers.
If you’re in Los Angeles or Las Vegas, you can buy your flowers from Shop Love Pot, a florist who specializes in stunning cannabis floral designs which include smokable CBD hemp—the kind helps you relax, but doesn't get you high— can be dried to enjoy later as a tea, herbal smoke blend, or for an aromatherapy herbal bath.
Cannabis wedding etiquette
Even though legalization is pretty much mainstream and any type of cannabis use is socially acceptable, you still need to keep these basic rules in mind at your cannabis wedding.
Let everyone attending your cannabis wedding know the dosage you are providing if you plan to serve pot-infused cocktails and appetizers. You want to make sure everyone, however well-versed they may be in weed, have all the information so they can make the best decisions for their selves and their bodies.
In case you are worried about anti-cannabis guests causing a stir, just create a private cannabis area - not to protect those we can't handle it, but to make it more fun (and secretive) for those who do #coolkidsclub
Be considerate with your smoke! Not everyone is tolerant of smoke or may have a condition like CHS that can make second hand cannabis smoke dangerous for them.
Ask your guests to be conscious of their use of fire, whether that be matches, lighters or dropping joints on the ground, if you are in nature. It’s forest fire season and you don’t want your special day to go up in smoke by destroying the environment.
Wedding Spliff Bar
The Barbari Spliff Bar is such a unique addition to the modern cannabis wedding! If your guests have the know-how or curiosity you can make it fully self-serve, otherwise hire a cannabis connoisseur behind the bar to answer questions, break down terminology, and create custom strain pairings with your choice of herbal blend. Terpines don’t sound so scary when you know they are essential oils also found in citrus, cinnamon, and even roses!
Made of different natural herbs, Barbari Blends have very pleasant floral scents, help cut down on cannabis costs, and keep everyone going for longer. No matter what your guests comfort level is with cannabis, they can customize their experience hand rolled just for them.
What To Wear
For Your Wedding Registry
Cannabis Gifts For Brides, Grooms & Bridal Parties
My Bud Vase makes signature one-of-a-kind artisan pieces – perfect for the bride and groom who love to be discrete about their cannabis consumption. Vintage designer bongs are crafted by artist Doreen Sullivan, who originally created these beautiful pieces to avoid good ol’ fashioned “mom-shaming” as they look more like artwork than a smoking device. Your bride will definitely thank you later for a piece she doesn’t have to hide when her mother-in-law drops in for a visit.
Ideas to spice up with honeymoon night
Best Weed Accessory Brands on Amazon: Elevate Your High with the Cutest Grinders, Trays and 420 Accessories for a Next-Level Smoking Experience
To truly get the most out of your smoking experience, you need the right accessories. For us, personally, we also need those accessories to be aesthetically pleasing and functional. From grinders and rolling trays to vaporizers and bongs, there are countless products on the market that can enhance your smoking sessions. In this article, we'll take a look at the best weed accessories that every cannabis enthusiast who cares about aesthetics should have.
Smoking weed is a popular pastime for many people, whether it's for medicinal or recreational purposes. But to truly get the most out of your smoking experience, you need the right accessories. For us, personally, we also need those accessories to be aesthetically pleasing and functional. From grinders and rolling trays to vaporizers and bongs, there are countless products on the market that can enhance your smoking sessions. In this article, we'll take a look at the best weed accessories that every cannabis enthusiast who cares about cute aesthetics should have.
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Grinders
A good grinder is an essential tool for any smoker. Grinders help break down your weed into smaller, more manageable pieces, making it easier to pack into a pipe, bong, or rolling paper. They also help ensure an even burn, which can improve the taste and potency of your smoke. There are a variety of grinders available, from simple hand-held models to electric grinders that can quickly and efficiently grind large amounts of weed.
Rolling Trays
A rolling tray is a flat surface used to roll joints or blunts. It's a great way to keep your weed and rolling papers organized and prevents any spills or messes. Many rolling trays also come with compartments to hold your grinder, lighters, and other smoking accessories.
Rolling Papers
Rolling papers are the most basic accessory needed to smoke weed. There are countless types of rolling papers available, from thin and ultra-light to thicker, flavored papers. They can be made from a variety of materials, including hemp, rice, and wood pulp.
Lighters
A good lighter is essential for smoking weed. It's important to choose a lighter with a strong flame that won't easily go out. Many smokers also prefer lighters with longer stems, as they make it easier to light a bowl without burning your fingers.
Ashtrays
Smell-Proof Containers
Finally, a good smell-proof container is a must-have accessory for any smoker. They help keep your weed fresh and prevent any odors from escaping. There are a variety of smell-proof containers available, from small, pocket-sized models to larger, lockable containers.
We hope you enjoy this selection of cute cannabis accessories! Let us know if there’s anything else you’d like to see.
High on Happiness: Planning a Palm Springs Cannabis Girls Getaway
If you’re looking for sunshine, mountain views, and retro vibes (as well as some of the best legal cannabis out there) this is the destination for you.
So, you’re looking for a sunny vacay where you won’t feel hungover, bloated and gross after a fun day with your friends but still get to unwind? How about substituting your white claws for cannabis?
We recommend this destination as the perfect spot to legally get high and have access to some of the best ganja on the globe. Add in palm trees, desert vistas, retro architecture, and mid-century fabulosity. and you’ve landed in Palm Springs, baby.
Yes, Palm Springs California offers a cannabis connoisseur access to world-class adult-use dispensaries whether you’re looking to shop in nearby Los Angeles before you depart for the desert, or if you want to buy your greens locally.
If you’ve always wanted to take a trip to Palm Springs, or if you’ve been before but can’t wait to return, we have some ideas on ways to make the most out of your visit to this fabulous desert oasis. Besides the sunshine, mountain views, and retro vibes, one of the best things about Palm Springs (and the state of California) is that cannabis is legal there!
That means, if you’re looking to limit your alcohol consumption for health or personal reasons, you can still enjoy unwinding with cannabis in Palm Springs. There are so many ways to incorporate weed into your vacation besides just smoking it! Or maybe you don’t enjoy consuming cannabis for fun but you still want to enjoy the health benefits of CBD to craft your own health retreat. We’ve got all kinds of ideas for an epic trip that you and your friends (no matter their experience with cannabis) will talk about for years - and that will help you all minimize the hangovers.
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Hall of Flowers: Palm Springs - Literally Cannabis Heaven
Highlights of the Event
Product Sampling: One of the most exciting aspects of the Hall of Flowers was the chance to sample products directly from the brands. Attendees received tickets to an on-site dispensary, where they could scoop up samples of the latest edibles, concentrates, and flower. This hands-on experience allowed consumers to engage with products before making a purchase, ensuring informed choices.
Core Conversations: The event featured a series of panels known as Core Conversations, where industry experts discussed various topics relevant to consumers. Sessions like "Create Outdoor Demand from a Shopper’s Perspective" focused on educating attendees about different growing practices and the experiential benefits of cannabis, shifting the conversation away from mere THC potency.
Networking Opportunities: Beyond product showcases, the Hall of Flowers provided a unique networking atmosphere. Consumers mingled with industry leaders, gaining insights into the latest trends and developments in the cannabis world. This interaction fostered a sense of community and allowed attendees to share their experiences and preferences.
Hall of Flowers was not just about the trade show; the after-parties were a highlight of the experience. Events like the Curators Connect and the legendary Farechild afterparty at the Saguaro Hotel created an electric atmosphere for networking and celebration. We enjoyed live music, delicious food, and the chance to connect with fellow cannabis lovers in a relaxed setting.
Hall of Flowers is a remarkable event that caters to both industry professionals and consumers. It offers a unique blend of product exploration, education, and community connection. Those who attended were left with an unforgettable experience that deepened their appreciation for the cannabis industry and its vibrant culture. As we look forward to future events, the Hall of Flowers continues to be a must-attend for anyone passionate about cannabis.
Even though Hall of Flowers isn’t doing a Palm Springs show this year, you should definitely check out their Santa Rosa show coming up in September.
What are the Weed Laws in Palm Springs?
If you’re wondering about Palm Springs cannabis ordinances, you can enjoy your bud assured. Under California law, adults 21 or older can use, carry, and even grow cannabis.
You are allowed to use weed on private property but you cannot use cannabis in public places. Property owners and landlords may ban the use and possession of cannabis on their properties so make sure you respect the rules of where you’re staying.
Even though it is legal under California law, you cannot consume or possess cannabis on federal lands like national parks, even if the park is in California.
Remember, it is illegal to take your cannabis across state lines, even if you are traveling to another state where cannabis is legal.
Our Favorite Weed Brands to Enjoy in Palm Springs
Some of our favorite cannabis brands and accessories that pair perfectly with Palm Springs:
If you’re looking for the most stylish cannabis accessories/gifts: Para Shop.
You’re in stunning, colorful Palm Springs so you can’t just smoke out of anything! A “bro-ey” bong would kill the vibe.
This online shop specializes in paraphernalia for the aesthetically high-minded consumer. Para Shop offers the most beautiful and functional pipes, bongs, papers, trays, scents (and much more) that you can find.
Para goes way above the traditional smoke shop by exclusively providing products designed with unique elements of artistry and craftsmanship. That’s because when founder Mariam Saïd started Para, after years as a buyer for high-end retailers such as Saks 5th Avenue, Mariam found that it was hard to find the luxury cannabis adjacent items she was looking for in one easy to shop destination.
That’s when it all clicked, why not have a head shop that catered to clientele looking to elevate their cannabis experiences through thoughtfully curated smoking accessories?
We love that most of their products are also delightful pieces of décor you’ll be overjoyed to see around your home.
How cute is this Tanjun pipe that doubles as an incense holder?
For the perfect gift: Para Shop makes it easy to find a gift to bring on your friend’s trip no matter what you’re celebrating. The Blue Raspberry Demi Pipe and Neon Lip Rolling Tray make ideal presents for a Palm Springs bachelorette party, birthday celebration or just a 420-friendly friends trip.
For travel: This Para Medtainer Grinder is a lightweight container with a built-in grinder that is perfect to throw in your bag on the go. It’s air-tight, water-tight and smell-proof.
We also recommend:
If you’re looking to smoke by the pool: Try Island Cannabis Co.
Island Cannabis is perfect for the laid-back vibe of Palm Springs. Their products bring the uncomplicated joy back to cannabis, with a collection of the highest-quality THC products created with the California spirit.
Imagine flying into LA, picking up your rental convertible, and stopping at one of the hundreds of cannabis retailers where Island products are available on your way to Palm Springs. You can also find their products at nearby dispensaries in Palm Desert if you’re flying directly into Palm Springs airport.
Island grows their greenhouse sustainable flower in Santa Cruz, CA and prides themselves in being fully self-sustained with a focus on environmentally friendly packaging and grow techniques. You can feel good about buying from Island not only because of their sustainable practices, but because they support local organizations like those rallying for wildfire victims and preserving our beaches. Island is also an official partner of Last Prisoner Project, a nonprofit organization that fights for full freedom for communities impacted by the war on drugs.
For the canna-curious friend: Try a TIN of Island Minis. Island Minis come in a compact, reusable case designed for happiness on-the-go. With 5 mini joints weighing in at just .5g each, they’re the perfect pre-rolls for those that like to enjoy a few puffs to enhance any moment. With each joint individually sealed, they’re guaranteed fresh and you’ll feel like they came straight off the farm. We believe good things come in small packages and Island Minis prove just that.
For the weed-experienced friend: You’re going to want to opt for a jar of Island Flower so you can grind and roll your own joints all afternoon. Each strain is grown in sunny California and is hand-selected, hand-trimmed, and triple-tested to ensure quality. With a magnifier on the bottom of the jar, Island takes the guesswork out of cannabis and makes it easy to ensure you’re getting top-notch buds.
From their Island Minis, to classic prerolls or farm-fresh flower and everything in between, Island caters to every type of cannabis user. Let the good times roll.
If you’re a germaphobe, but also really fabulous: Try JTT’s Chill Stones
Just The Tip Accessories make glass filter tips that are functional and super cute. Chill Stones are glass tips that provide a protective barrier between you and your joints. When it’s your turn in the joint-passing rotation, you just put the joint into your personal Chill Stone. No need to worry about sharing germs with your friends, you can just focus on sharing the fun in Palm Springs. This invention could not have come at a better time. It’s perfect for parties and events where you might want to smoke but value your health too much to be sharing cooties.
Besides the unique designs, one of our favorite things about these Chill Stone filter tips is that they come with a stylish chain so you can wear them around your neck. These definitely are some of the most adorable and useful cannabis smoking accessories we have ever come across.
As a bonus, your lip gloss won’t come off on the paper when you smoke!
For the canna-curious friend: You might still be getting into cannabis glasswear and this is the perfect introduction. As well as being able to use it for a joint filter tip, you can also use Chill Stones as a one-hitter for micro hits. Way less overwhelming than a pipe or a bong, JTT accessories are discrete and easily portable.
For the weed-experienced friend: This is the perfect cannabis accessory for travel. You can tuck the Chill Stone inside the accompanying pouch neatly away in your luggage to make sure you always have a safe and stylish way to smoke on your adventures. It’s a great conversation starter that will keep your fingers from getting burned and protect you from harsh smoke. We also love this
If you want to look and feel your best, but still have fun: Try Proof Wellness
Enjoying cocktails with your pals is one of the great joys in life. But hangovers can ruin a vacation faster than rain inside your convertible and life is really too short for that. We love to raise a glass together but hate feeling bad the next day. We’ve been experimenting with cannabis cocktails and one of our favorite brands to try for cannabis mixology are the tinctures from Proof Wellness.
Proof is owned and operated by women, so of course, they get it. All Proof products are vegan, sugar-free, gluten-free, and cruelty-free, made by hand in their small facility in Northern California.
Making your own canna-cocktails with a tincture saves money and allows you to control your own dosage. Plus, if you’re looking to be healthy, it cuts out the sugar you’d get from edibles. We put our recipe for Cannabis Pina Coladas below but you can make any food or beverage into your own edible or cocktail!
Proof also makes amazing Body Serum and Face Serum. Keep scrolling for a personal story about how this serum saved us from a hot tub chemical incident later in the article.
For the canna-curious friend: Have you ever tried micro-dosing with cannabis? Try using Proof a little at a time, so you still get the calming, focusing, energizing, or restoring effects of weed but its intoxicating effects are minimized. Many of Proof’s customers (from high-performing executives to seriously ill patients) use Proof on a near-constant basis but at low levels. This can take some experimentation to learn the best potency for your tolerance and application. Try the 20:1 tincture. It has .5 mg THC and 10 mg CBD. It’s the lowest potency tincture. If someone wants to make you a multi-course edible dinner (and they should), tell them to use this.
For the weed-experienced friend: If you have a high tolerance level, you’ll want to try Proof’s 1:1 which has 10 mg THC and 10 mg CBD. We love using this one for cannabis cocktails. This is a great ratio for multi-course dinners for consumers with higher tolerance levels.
Proof THC Pina Colada Recipe
3 cups frozen or fresh pineapple chunks
1 can of light coconut milk (15oz)
1/2 cup pineapple juice
Proof THC rich tincture*
Pineapple wedge for garnish
Add the pineapple chunks, coconut milk and pineapple juice to a blender. Blend until smooth and thick.
Pour into serving glasses and put 1/2 a dropper or less (depending on how much THC you want) of Proof THC rich tincture on top of each drink. Add garnish and serve! Or better yet, let your guests dose themselves according to their preference!
*Dosage: we recommend starting at a low level relative to your normal consumption. You can always add more. Proof makes it easy to understand dosing and choose the product that’s right for you.
If you’re a foodie: Try Potli
We love to eat almost as much as we love putting together a charcuterie board. Also, why is it so fun to mispronounce charcuterie? Our poolside snacks included some epic products from Potli, including this THC-infused honey.
Potli Honey is made with raw, wildflower honey harvested right in the San Francisco Bay Area. It was so delicious drizzled on cheese but would also be a perfect addition to your tea. We can attest it was equally as yummy on its own. This honey has anti-inflammatory superpowers so you can feel great while enjoying it. Potli also makes CBD honey, without the psychoactive ingredients of the THC version that you’d find in dispensaries, that can be shipped to your door and will help you find natural relief, balance and take the edge off so you can feel good all day, every day.
As well as honey, we also managed to get our hands on some of Potli’s limited edition THC Shrimp Chips! If you have been sleeping on shrimp chips its time you gave them a try. Equally crunchy, flavorful, and cloud-like, these are a staple that everyone can enjoy. Please join us in begging Potli to make more of these!
We would also be remiss if we didn’t mention THC Sriracha. Yes, we said THC Sriracha! An ode to a cult favorite Vietnamese hot sauce (which was perfect on the pop-corn we made). It’s spicy and nano-emulsified with 100mg of THC (.85mg per dropper, 5mg per tsp) for a high heat culinary experience.
For the canna-curious friend: Potli Cannabis-Infused Shrimp Chips are the perfect way for you to try small dosage edibles. These ready-to-munch chips are an uplifting snack born with a perfectly low dosage. Since 1 chip = 1 mg, you can choose how high you want to get. Just be warned that these crunchy delicacies are hard to stop eating. We recommend starting with a couple of salty-sweet umami chips for a dose of joy.
For the weed-experienced friend: Potli’s Play Honey in "going up" (THC dominant) is going to be right up your alley. It has a solid dose of THC and CBD, infused with low heat to retain the antibacterial, antioxidant benefits of raw honey. Fun fact, in ancient ayurvedic medicine, honey is considered among the most powerful vessels for herbal medicines, making this the ideal THC enhanced superfood to integrate into your daily wellness routine - or your pool party.
If you have dry, sensitive skin: Try Lotus Bliss Botanicals
Listen, Palm Springs isn’t all smiles and perfect lighting. It’s the desert. That means it’s an extraordinarily dry climate. If you have dry skin be warned that your skin is going to be 10x dryer. Your normal skincare and make-up products may act strangely - clumping, drying, and leaving you feeling like you’ve actually become a cactus. We’re talking on your face, as well as your body - full-on cacti.
Nothing can ruin a mini-photo shoot or a brunch outing like misbehaving skin. We were saved from parched epidermis by an amazing, WOC-owned company called Lotus Bliss Botanicals. They make thoughtfully designed skincare products infused with CBD.
The Lotus Bliss Breast Oil, a luminous CBD infused massage oil, is designed to be a sensuous massage oil for your routine breast checks. I know, we weren't doing those either before we got our hands on this breast oil.
It was Apricot Kernel Oil which is rich in Vitamin A & E, paired with a dazzling bronze shade to nourish your skin while providing a gentle glow that looks so good in the sunlight! Each bottle contains 80 mg Full Spectrum Hemp CBD that produces healthy looking, satin soft skin especially when massaged into the neck and décollotage.
Did you know that breast massage is a way to move lymphatic fluid in breast tissue and help you become aware of any potential changes within the breast and body, especially throughout/after breastfeeding?
One of our favorite things about Lotus Bliss Botanicals is that they donate a portion of every purchase to a Breast Cancer Foundation.
They also make a Lotus Oil Intimate Moisturizer, a CBD-infused intimate oil to give your vulva a moisturizing and hydrating experience. It has Organic Calendula, Oatstraw, and Marshmallow root infused together to create a potent botanical infusion to rejuvenate & replenish the skin around your feminine area.
The Lotus Oil Intimate Moisturizer is really great on razor burn so we actually used it on our legs, poolside!
For the canna-curious friend: These products are applied topically and are infused with CBD with only contains trace amounts of THC so they won’t get you high.
For the weed-experienced friend: Try getting high and giving yourself a breast massage. It’s a divine way to connect to your breasts and body using the magic of cannabis!
If you’re looking for the perfect party favors: Try Queen Mary
If you’re meeting up with your friends in Palm Springs, you’re probably celebrating after not seeing each other for far too long! Whether you’re gathering for a bachelorette party, bridal shower or just a reunion, why not bring your friends a little goodie bag for the weekend?
Queen Mary is a brand with the idea in mind of reinventing the old cliché’ of stoners smoking alone behind closed doors. This is a brand with the modern woman in mind. We’re all busy juggling a lot and cannabis can really help bring some peace — and a whole lot of fun — to our lives. Queen Mary’s cute ashtrays, tinctures, roach clips and gummies are designed to give women back their power and vivify their day. The products make the perfect gifts!
One of the things we really love about the brand is its focus on social justice and mental health. This Gay Rights ashtray is as adorable as it is important. It would be so perfect for Pride weekend in Palm Springs. Their wonderful array of rolling trays, ashtrays, crystal roach wands make a statement with their Social Justice theme.
The purpose of Queen Mary’s edible products is to provide a natural alternative to addictive prescriptions. Their gummies and tinctures are infused with natural supplements to aid in alleviating stress, anxiety, and insomnia. Their number 1 selling product, Moonstruck, is a Lavender flavored sleep aid gummy infused with 5mg of the CBN cannabinoid. Enchanted, a strawberry lemonade flavored gummy is another top seller that is infused with Rhodiola and B-12 to aid with energy and focus and offset feelings of anxiety and fatigue. Their Boost tincture does just that as it is infused with THCV, Vitamins D3, and B-12 to give you that boost you need to get through the day.
Queen Mary is a WOC-owned/Tier 1 Social Equity Recipient brand. The CEO grew up in one of the lowest income zip codes in LA and witnessed the war on drugs and the disproportionate impact it had on her friends, family, and neighbors firsthand. She is a single mother from the age of 17 and a foster mother to at-risk youth. Over the last two decades, the rise in the use of prescribed depressants, stimulants, and opiates has led to addictions and overdoses at an alarming rate. Having witnessed this destruction in her own family, Queen Mary is a brand designed to give women back their power and vivify their day. Whether you need stress relief, a boost of energy, or help getting a good night’s sleep, Queen Mary is more than a brand. It’s a homage to today’s woman. Also, we love their slogan: Queen Mary ~ A Fixin for A Vixen!
For the canna-curious friend: If you’re shopping for a canna-curious friend, why not get them a tin of delicious strawberry lemonade gummies? Since each one of Queen Mary’s gummies are 10mg THC, you can let them try cutting each one in half (5mg) or in quarters (2.5mg) so they can experiment with their perfect dosage.
For the weed-experienced friend: Queen Mary’s Boost Espresso tincture will be ideal for your weed-loving pal to put into her coffee in the morning. There’s nothing like sipping infused coffee and watching the mountain range change colors on a perfect Palm Springs morning!
Queen Mary edibles are available in select dispensaries and will be launching products online soon!
What To Pack for Palm Springs
Depending on when you visit Palm. Springs, you’re going to want to bring a few additional clothing items as well as the obvious essentials. The weather gets cold at night during the winter months. Make sure along with your bikinis, pool wear, sundresses, etc you’re that you pack a few sweaters and even jackets with you.
Colorful Knits
We love colorful sweaters and knits for sitting outside at dusk smoking by the fire pit and for nights out to dinner in Palm Springs! They work perfectly over a sun dress and will keep you cozy. Here are a few fun options:
Retro Inspired Clothing and Accessories
With its midcentury decor and colorful architecture, Palm Springs is perfect for bringing out the retro vibes to your wardrobe.
What Else Should I Know About Palm Springs?
Remember when we told you about the dry climate in Palm Springs? Another thing to consider if you have sensitive skin is pool and hot tub chemicals. Pool chemicals can wreak havoc on skin, especially if you’re spending a lot of time in the hot tub like we were! I actually had a terrible rash from the dry air and hot tub chemicals and once again, cannabis saved me.
Proof Wellness (the same company we love for cannabis mocktail tinctures) makes an amazing body serum. I applied it daily on my rash and not only did it soothe the burning, but it moisturized my skin so well. Highly recommend for anyone with baby-sensitivity like me.
What Dispensaries are in Palm Springs?
We’ll be updating this guide with our list of favorite dispensaries — plus some ideas on what to eat and what to do in Palm Springs shortly! Let us know if you have any questions on what you’d like to learn about planning the perfect getaway for stoner girls in Palm Springs.
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How to Throw a “Joint” Birthday Party with Your BFF
If you’ve been craving some time with your bestie and need an excuse to celebrate - why not plan a joint birthday celebration? Celebrating your birthdays together makes it so much more fun!
What is a Joint Birthday?
If you’ve been craving some time with your bestie and need an excuse to celebrate - why not plan a joint birthday celebration by planning a weekend getaway together for BOTH of your birthdays in one.
Celebrating your birthdays together makes it so much more fun. High Herstory co-founders @nettyflowers and @jennyjoslin, curated this birthday extravaganza featuring the most exciting cannabis products out there. From glassware + artisan bongs, mints, pre-roll cigarettes, luxury edibles, cannabis cards, and more, these products make the perfect gifts and party favors.
How To Plan A Joint Birthday
First of all, there’s no rule that says you have to celebrate your birthday on the actual date of your birthday.
We happened to choose a date that falls in the middle of both our birthdays but you could plan for any time of year! In fact, you could even sub a birthday celebration for any holiday…ask us about our plans for a “Lonely” Valentine’s Day that’s anything but lonely (more on that another time).
The best part, besides spending time together, was that we took the joint part literally. I mean, really literally.
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Why Cannabis?
Well, we kinda love getting high - in a responsible, fun, grown-up way. We’ve been exploring our relationship with the plant for years now so we know what dosage and consumption methods work for us now. Though we drink sometimes (you might notice a glass of champagne next to our designer bongs) we have found much more fulfillment with weed. Cannabis can help open up your perspective to new ideas. It can actually help decrease judgment in the brain (read more about the Science Behind Cannabis and Creativity here). What could be better than getting silly and weird with your best friend?
While others might enjoy knocking back a few drinks to unwind, we prefer giggling over inside jokes and having a dance party to Lana Del Rey (yes, you can dance to Lana if you really try) and Lizzy Jeff.
And there’s no risk of having to hold back each other’s hair if someone imbibes a little too much. One of the very best things about utilizing cannabis for your celebration instead of the more traditional partaking of booze is that you won’t be hungover.
We loved waking up in the morning after our party and feeling fresh! No headaches, no dehydration, and no feeling like you want to sleep all day. The hours you will never get back from being hungover really become apparent as you begin to enjoy cannabis and get used to not having to worry about hangovers.
One important thing to note is to always start small with weed until you are familiar with how your body reacts. Listen to your body and keep track of what products you’re using/how much you’re consuming and you will start to understand what’s right for you.
Where To Have Your Party
We chose a city getaway for our party because we have so many incredible memories in New York City - and consuming cannabis has been decriminalized there! How could we not celebrate that as well? Make sure you are following rules when it comes to smoking, but we chose a boutique hotel on Manhattan’s west side with an epic terrace so we could adhere to smoking rules...With age comes wisdom, we guess.
Who To Invite
Whoever the hell you want. It’s your party and if want to have a few select friends join you, why not? But if you just want it to be the two of you, don’t feel like you have to invite anyone. Sometimes you just want to get high with your bestie and no one else is invited!
Celebration Essentials + Our Itenirary
Finding cool weed stuff is one of our very favorite activities. This party was particularly exciting because we got to show each other some of our finds that the other one hadn’t tried. Just to be super real with you, we pride ourselves on finding the best products and companies out there, this post may contain affiliate links and sponsorship to cover the costs of the shoot. You can rest assured we only promote products we genuinely have tried and believe in and if you click the link to purchase, you’ll be supporting great brands and our small female-run company. A win-win for everyone!
Here are the cannabis products we chose to celebrate with and how we used them:
Hotel Pre-Game with Session Goods
We kicked off the weekend by meeting at our hotel suite for the biggest hug ever and marveling at how cool our room was. The Maritime Hotel in Manhattan’s Meatpacking District was the perfect spot because it has the biggest balcony we’ve ever seen in a hotel. After exploring the room, we went outside to pack a bowl in our one-hitter and bong from Session.
We love Session Goods glass bongs but their one-hitters and new line of stash-jars and ashtrays take the brand to the next level.
Why we like it:
The one-hitters are the perfect smoking accessory to hold your joint, or just to have a special piece on hand for when your bestie visits. The silicon holder makes us feel extra fancy when we use it to hold joints, and it works as a great stopper to keep your tiny glass one-hitter from rolling away from you. Now, let’s talk about these stash jars…what can we say about perfection? You can hold your joint or one-hitter in the bottom while the beautiful glass containers keeps your green fresh and the lid sits on top creating a scent barrier between you and your smoking device. Chef’s kiss.
2. Freshening Up with Mr. Moxey’s
We had a lot of celebrating ahead of us but we were a little tired from traveling. Refreshment was needed so we decided to catch up with a long chat and Energizing Mr. Moxey’s. Not only did these put an extra spring in our step but they were the perfect treat to have after traveling when you just need to feel fresh.
Why we like it:
We love micro-dosing and these portable and oh-so-discreet mints are not going to be in our bags going forward. Mr. Moxey’s mints are our favorite because we can tailor our experience based on the mint. Our faves are Energize, Balance, and Relax best. The small dose makes it easy for us to know what we will be experiencing and it is always fun after a meal to have a mint! We love everything about Mr. Moxey’s, from the philosophy of their brand to the tea they use to infuse flavors into their herbal pastilles. Their mints are vegan, gluten-free and handcrafted in small batches. They come 20 in a pack and are great to share with friends after a meal.
3. Getting fancy with My Bud Vase
Why is getting ready to go out the most fun part of the evening? We put on our sparkly dresses and took some glamorous photos with these matching My Bud Vase Vamp bongs.
Is there a better way to show who your best friend forever is than matching bongs? If there is, we haven’t found it yet.
Why we like it:
My Bud Vase is legendary for unique, artisan pieces that you can display around your home. No one would ever know this work of art is a bong! The Vamp piece is toooo pretty just like your bestie. We felt like fabulous flappers using these gorgeous pieces. It’s a good thing that there are two, or we might have had to fight over them! We also loved the joint holders emblazoned with My Bud Vase at the top. We felt so sophisticated smoking our pre-rolls using these dual gold joint clip and poker. Look out, Audrey Hepburn, there are two new “it” girls in town!
4. Cake and Farnsworth Fine Cannabis Cigarettes
We decided it was most certainly time for cake and beautiful pre-rolls! Our manicures from Nailed by Ninoska featured a joint holder (yes, you heard that right - you can check out a video of it here) so of course, we had to light it with cake candles before blowing them out.
Why we like it:
Farnsworth in Great Barrington, Massachusetts has elevated the luxury cannabis dispensary experience. We have never visited a more beautiful and thoughtful store.
Seriously, if you are ever in the area you must stop in because it is a one of kind retail space. Usually, a personal shopper greets the guest at the door and walks them through answering any questions the patient or recreational user has while keeping your order in their head until your order is filled and they meet you at the register.
Their pre-rolls are our favorites, we hate to even share this with you, as they also tend to sell out. Coming in three distinct styles; Light, Classic, and Bold, they are our favorite pre-rolls. Not only do they come in a gorgeous box, but they are made with hemp papers and special filters that keep your THC intake intact.
We also highly recommend their Body Oil for aches and their Reserve Fine Cannabis Cigars for special occasions, which a joint birthday with your BFF most certainly is.
5. Gift Giving with Puff Cards
We love spoiling each other and after being away from each other during the pandemic, we needed something really special to exchange.
These adorable Puff Cards come with a tube to put your joint in!
Why we like it:
Puff Cards greeting cards are perfect if you and your best friend both love to consume cannabis. The cards are discretely enclosed with a smell-resistant tube, keeping your gift safe and secure within. Every card includes a custom envelope and sticker. We love that Puff Cards is a female majority-equity company in the cannabis space that believes in wellness and making memories.
We know the memories of your joint birthday party will come rushing back to you when you find this card sitting in your kitchen drawer in a few years.
6. Going out and about with Manna Tabs
In full transparency, we were around many nightclubs but we had no interest in that kind of party. Instead, we walked around Manhattan by dark and took these sublingual tabs with us! It was so fun people watching, grabbing an outdoor dinner, and getting to laugh over all the crazy stories from birthdays past.
Why we like it:
These are @nettyflowers ‘s favorite new sublingual (meaning it absorbs under your tongue!). They are a game changer - the on set time is only five minutes and it’s cool to be able to carry something so discreet and tiny in your bag.
“I never worry when I have these on my person when I’m traveling and it really does feel medicinal to me. It reminds me to consume conscientiously because the flavor is really unique and not like a gummy or candy, but I like that for times when I need just a little anxiety relief.” - @nettyflowers
We loved the ease of carrying these tiny tabs in tiny tubes in our tiny bags as we roamed the city streets of NYC without worrying about them getting crushed because of their genius packaging.
7. Getting “witchy” with Chill Steel Pipes
Hanging out on our terrace, enjoying deep talks about astrology and life was the perfect way to wrap up the evening. If we had been drunk our conversation might not have had the same depth or weirdness. The tarot cards came out, we did a gratitude spell, and played lots of Stevie Nicks.
Chill is the easiest bong to clean because they come apart so easily and you can also customize the colors and design your bowl and neck, the possibilities to show your personality are endless.
Why we like it:
A Scorpio and Libra Joint Birthday Party would be nothing without a nod to astrology. The sexy black constellation steel pipe is all Scorpio sexiness wrapped in the stars and a moon. The pink constellation steel pipe is all romantic and bubbly libra with gold accents. Trés Chic! The Chill Steel Pipe is made out of food-grade stainless steel and is double-wall vacuum insulated, like a premium reusable water bottle. They make the perfect gift for your stoner bestie.
8. Skin Care Routine with Blunt Skincare
No slumber party would be complete without a skincare routine! Doing skincare with your best friend is pretty much our idea of heaven. No one to impress, just someone you trust to see you without your make-up and who you enjoy having around even if you are just trying to get hotter. Add hemp to the mix and you have taken the end of your night into the next-level territory. Also, forgot to tell you that we filled up our bathtub with balloons.
Why we like it:
Created by a cosmetic scientist, Blunt Skincare combines innovative cosmetic chemistry with hemp-derived extracts in their line of top-shelf green beauty oils. They look beautiful, with really fresh packing but also pack powerful plant medicine to enhance your skin. We used them as the last step in our skincare routine. These also come in trial sizes which are absolutely perfect for sealing in moisture on the road or on a plane.
9. Morning Chill with Camino Cannabis Infused Gummies
Even though we woke up without a hangover, we really just needed to chill for a little bit. We let ourselves sleep in and have a morning treat of fresh-squeezed orange juice, left-over cake, and infused gummies in our bathrobes.
Why we like it:
One of our favorite things about being cannabis enthusiasts is that we don’t get hangovers from cannabis consumption. That being said, after a night of partying in a penthouse with your best forever friend, you will probably want something the next day that helps your body recover from dancing the night away. Enter Camino Wild Berry Gummies - they were the perfect edible to get us ready for brunching in the meatpacking district. The calming, indica-like terpenes pair with notes of wild blackberry and fresh raspberry for a laid-back Sunday vibe.
10. Brunch with TONIC Zone CBD Vape Pen
It was time for a great brunch and though Manhattan is filled with trendy places, we opted for a quaint French cafe and a CBD pen for focus. We felt very European and dramatic sitting out on the sidewalk people-watching.
Why We Like It:
These CBD vape pens are gorgeous and we adored taking them with us to a Parisian cafe for brunch. Clean, high-quality CBD vaporizer, infused with limonene and pinene terpenes makes this a special vape experience. We felt balanced and focused and ready to take on a Sunday shopping trip. It was so damn fun to pull out matching vape pens while we enjoyed cappuccinos and croissants. We have big fans of the TONIC company for a long time, but these are so thoughtfully made gift-able they are a must-have luxury CBD vape pen. The charger comes in a beautiful case, that we also use for traveling with it.
11. Relaxing with Cannaflower CBD
Our lazy Sunday would not be complete without more luxury cannabis products. We went back to our hotel and prepared to check out, which was bitter-sweet. This delicious flower made the blow of leaving our fancy suite a little less painful but we made sure to tell everyone we saw in the lobby that we used to live in the Penthouse upon checking out.
Why We Like It:
We are huge fans of Cannaflower CBD, top-shelf, artisan-level CBD hemp flower, that is perfect for our Sunday relaxation situation. We’ve been lucky enough to have sampled their hemp in the past, but we were blown away by their pre-rolls. Each pack’s effect is a curated individual strain chosen for it’s distinct cannabinoid and terpene profile and they come in an adorable tin cigarette holder that makes them perfect for transport.
And if you’re looking for a gift for your best bud, may we recommend The Voyager Box. The box is brimming with 7 of their most popular strains so your friend can find the one she loves the best. They ship to all 50 states so you don’t have to worry about location in order to send this gift to yourself or your bestie.
Cannaflower is also offering 20% off storewide (excluding the Club Box) to our readers using the code: CFHighHerStory.
Extra Credit: Make a THC Cocktail
THC Spiked Spritzers Recipe
You will need:
Cherry or Pomegranate Juice
Cans of your THC sparkling soda (We used Hi5 made by Theory Wellness)
Orange peel for garnish
Champagne glasses
To build:
Add 1/4 an ounce of cherry or pomegranate juice to each champagne coup or glass.
Top off with sparkling seltzer and add an orange peel! Cute stirrers make it festive! Voila! A hangover free cocktail.
Would you have a Joint Birthday?
If you haven’t seen your best friends in awhile and need an excuse to celebrate, a joint birthday will be a memory you’ll cherish for years to come. Who knows, it might even become your new tradition! If you try it, please let us know so we can feature your celebration on our IG!
In the spirit of giving, we’ve put together this cannabis gift guide with some ideas for those in your life that love weed. If you have friends and family who are avid stoners or just now discovering cannabis products, these gifts will help their stash game. From unique bongs and pipes to the most beautiful curated cannabis gift boxes, there are a ton of awesome weed gifts out there.